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One Bad Answer Can Cost You the Room

Trust is the foundation of leadership. It’s built not in grand moments, but in small, everyday conversations—especially the ones we don’t see coming.

A team member asks for a project update. A senior leader challenges your plan. A client brings up an objection mid-pitch. What you say next—and how you say it—can either strengthen trust or quietly unravel it.

The silent trust killer: when leaders fumble, deflect, or ramble when asked a question on the spot. In these moments, the impact goes beyond the words—it strikes at the heart of credibility.

Why It Matters: The Trust Equation in Action

David Maister’s Trust Equation offers a powerful lens to understand this:

  • Credibility – Are you seen as competent and clear?
  • Reliability – Do you respond consistently and calmly?
  • Intimacy – Can others be open with you, or do you create distance?
  • Self-orientation – Do you focus on others, or are always protecting yourself?

A poor on-the-spot response can erode all four—sounding unsure can undermine credibility, dodging a question can damage reliability, and nervous over-talking can raise self-orientation.

Trust is built in small moments, and lost just as quickly.

A Practical Tool: Think on Your Feet®

Leaders don’t need to have all the answers—but they must be able to respond with clarity and composure.

That’s where Think on Your Feet® comes in. This globally acclaimed communication programme gives professionals simple, practical techniques to:

  • Organise thoughts quickly and clearly
  • Respond confidently, even under pressure
  • Use structured messaging to stay focused and credible

The result? Fewer fumbles. Stronger presence. And a more trustworthy leadership voice.

Even a response like “I don’t have that answer right now, but here’s what I do know…” can convey confidence, reliability, and transparency.

Moving Forward: Build Trust, One Conversation at a Time

Want to experience these tools in action?

Join us for a mini-experience of Think on Your Feet® in Petaling Jaya:

📍 Date: Tuesday, 10 Sept 2025

🕣 Time: 8:30 AM – 12:30 PM

📌 Venue: Armada Hotel Petaling Jaya

💳 Fee: Complimentary

🥐 Light breakfast served

🎟️ Reserve your seat

Every interaction is a chance to build—or break—trust. Choose wisely.

To bring a fresh approach to leadership in Singapore, reach out to us for leadership development training programs, EQ workshops for leaders, and better conversation skills workshops — all designed to help leaders thrive in real moments that matter.